Don’t Wait Until it’s Dying – When to go to couple’s therapy

For whatever reason, it seems that couples are the last to make it to therapy. They come in covered in emotional barbs, glaring at each other from across my couch and alternate between broiling silences and spewing negativity. Maybe the reason they are here is out of a sense of obligation for their children, maybe … Continue reading Don’t Wait Until it’s Dying – When to go to couple’s therapy

I Am Whatever You Say I Am – The way that our negative perceptions shape the way that we see our partners (and how they see themselves

Guess who's back? Back again? Ok Ok, I promise, no more Eminem lyrics. Things have been a little crazy in my neck of the woods as we have moved out of my parent's house and into a new house! Woo! And don't you worry, I will surely have a post about how to live harmoniously … Continue reading I Am Whatever You Say I Am – The way that our negative perceptions shape the way that we see our partners (and how they see themselves

You’re not listening – why you might not be seeing eye to eye

Well folks, its been awhile. I apologize. There are lots of changes happening with my practice and my brain has been pretty busy. But, here I am. Bright eyed and filled to the brim with all the therapy things. You know, being in a relationship is hard. I mean really, sometimes its exhausting. Trying to … Continue reading You’re not listening – why you might not be seeing eye to eye